Reg: 03-2005 Loc: In your pc :D Posts: 2245 Greatness: 68 (+78/-10)
Giiiirrrrrrrrrrrls........... So theres this lass that likes me, well 2, but the 1st ones onl 11, and i keep telling her shes way too young and ill tell her parents unless she stops. But I darent tell her old man cos hell take i the wrong way hes protective. So I dunno what to do there.
The other one is really nice shes a real good laugh but I dunno if she likes me THAT much. She keeps nagging me to call her too. More like urging me to call her so yeah lol
Reg: 12-2004 Loc: Between madness and insanity. Posts: 954 Greatness: 92 (+108/-16)
Re: Giiiirrrrrrrrrrrls........... Interesting situation.
About your eleven year old lass, I'd suggest telling her gently and nicely that a relationship between the two of you simply can't happen, and that it wouldn't work out. Tell her that you're flattered and thank her for considering you, but be firm in telling her that there simply isn't a way, and state your reasons why you think it can't work. Be clear, and send no mixed messages. If all else fails, I'd suggest you do go and talk to her Dad. He'll understand, and if he has any sense, he won't take it the wrong way.
And your second friend? I'd suggest scoping out the circumstances a bit more. Call her; she'll very much appreciate it. Scope out whether or not you think she'll want something with you, casual, deep, whatever. Regardless, consider what you want (are you happy to start off in a light, casual relationship, or do you want something a bit more firm at the start?) and what she wants. Regardless, I strongly suggest calling her, and taking note of the way she's communicating with you. Do you notice any signs she's interested? And so on.
I hope I was of some help to you buddy. Good luck. ^_^
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Reg: 03-2005 Loc: In your pc :D Posts: 2245 Greatness: 68 (+78/-10)
Re: Giiiirrrrrrrrrrrls........... Yeah I think that will help. Im not really interested in that 1st lass but I get embarresed with me seeing her in the street and people talking. I think that will help. Thanks.
The 2nd one, I was at her house last night but she was waith her cousin. Nothing happened really but when we were talking she looked really interested and when i said bye she had this real glow in her eye and asked me to call her asap. I called her earlier but she was off to her mums. I always have bad timing with her and I dont wanna call her too often.
Interesting situation.
About your eleven year old lass, I'd suggest telling her gently and nicely that a relationship between the two of you simply can't happen, and that it wouldn't work out. Tell her that you're flattered and thank her for considering you, but be firm in telling her that there simply isn't a way, and state your reasons why you think it can't work. Be clear, and send no mixed messages. If all else fails, I'd suggest you do go and talk to her Dad. He'll understand, and if he has any sense, he won't take it the wrong way.
And your second friend? I'd suggest scoping out the circumstances a bit more. Call her; she'll very much appreciate it. Scope out whether or not you think she'll want something with you, casual, deep, whatever. Regardless, consider what you want (are you happy to start off in a light, casual relationship, or do you want something a bit more firm at the start?) and what she wants. Regardless, I strongly suggest calling her, and taking note of the way she's communicating with you. Do you notice any signs she's interested? And so on.
I hope I was of some help to you buddy. Good luck. ^_^
Reg: 08-2006 Loc: Right Where You Want Me To Be. Posts: 473 Greatness: 8 (+15/-7)
Re: Giiiirrrrrrrrrrrls........... haha aww the girls only 11? does she know that your not really interested in her or you have told her but she wont listen to you.
i suggest the same as arbiter tell her your flattered and stuff
and for the second girl,if she wants you to call her then its obvious she likes you but yeah dont overdo it or your screwed,doesnt she have a mobile? and how old r u man?
So theres this lass that likes me, well 2, but the 1st ones onl 11, and i keep telling her shes way too young and ill tell her parents unless she stops. But I darent tell her old man cos hell take i the wrong way hes protective. So I dunno what to do there.
The other one is really nice shes a real good laugh but I dunno if she likes me THAT much. She keeps nagging me to call her too. More like urging me to call her so yeah lol
Age isnt a a bad thing, alot of married couples are a lot further apart than that... take Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore for instance